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The One
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When the one whose hand you’re holding
Is the one who holds your heart,
When the one whose eyes you gaze into
Gives your hopes and dreams their start,
When the one you think of first and last
Is the one who holds you tight,
And the things you plan together
Make the whole world seem just right,
When the one whom you believe in
Puts their faith and trust in you,
You’ve found the one and only love
You’ll share your whole life through.


Marriage Means Being In Love for the Rest of Your Life

Chris Ardis

Marriage is love walking hand in hand together.
It’s laughing with each other about silly little things, and learning to discuss big things with care and tenderness.
In marriage, love is trusting each other when you’re apart.
It’s getting over disappointments and hurts, knowing that these are present in all relationships.
It’s the realisation that there is no one else in this world that you’d rather be with than the one you’re married to.
It’s thinking of new things to do together; it’s growing old together.
Marriage is being in love for the rest of your life.


True Friendship
Judy Bielicki

It is often said that it is love that makes the world go round.  However, without doubt, it is friendship which keeps our spinning existence on an even keel. 

True friendship provides so many of the essentials for a happy life – it is the foundation on which to build an enduring relationship; it is the mortar which bonds us together in harmony; and it is the calm, warm protection we sometimes need when the world outside seems cold and chaotic. 

True friendship holds a mirror to our foibles and failings, without destroying our sense of worthiness. 
True friendship nurtures our hopes, supports us in our disappointments and encourages us to grow to our best potential. 

Bride and Groom came together as friends. Today, they pledge to each other not only their love, but also the strength, warmth and most importantly, the fun of true friendship.


Excerpt from Winnie-the-Pooh
A.A. Milne

“If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.”
Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. “Pooh?” he whispered. “Yes, Piglet?”
“Nothing,” said Piglet, taking Pooh’s hand. “I just wanted to be sure of you.”
“We’ll be Friends Forever, won’t we, Pooh?” asked Piglet.
“Even longer,” Pooh answered. “If ever there is tomorrow when we’re not together… there is something you must always remember.
You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we’re apart… I’ll always be with you.”


A tapestry of love

Just as two very different threads woven in opposite directions can form a beautiful tapestry,
so can your two lives merge together to form a beautiful marriage.
To make your marriage work will take love.
Love should be the core of your marriage; love is the reason you are here.
But it will also take trust – to know in your hearts you want the best for each other.
It will take dedication – to stay open to one another;
to learn and to grow together even when this is not so easy to do.
It will take faith – to always be willing to go forward to tomorrow, never really knowing what tomorrow will bring.
And it will take commitment – to hold true to a journey you both now will share together.


The Art Of A Good Marriage
Wilferd Arlan Peterson

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created.
In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say “I love you” at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted; the courtship should not end with the honeymoon, it should continue through all the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy.
It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humour.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.


Letters from the Heart: Prayer For A Blended Family
Chelle

Lord, in your providence, you have provided the family as a place where people can experience love, learn important life lessons and find unequaled encouragement.
May your design be reflected in this new family.
I pray that you would unite and bind this family together; even in togetherness, may there be space to be individuals.
Help each person to love, respect and encourage others within the family.
May the care and hospitality within the family be extended to those outside; that others might see your presence.


The Second Time Around
Sammy Cahn and Jimmy Van

Love is lovelier the second time around
Just as wonderful with both feet on the ground
It's that second time you hear your love song sung
Makes you think perhaps that love, like youth, is wasted on the young

Love's more comfortable the second time you fall
Like a friendly home the second time you call
Who can say what brought us to this miracle we've found?
There are those who'll bet love comes but once, and yet
I'm oh, so glad we met the second time around

Who can say what brought us to this miracle we've found?
There are those who'll bet love comes but once, and yet
I'm oh, so glad we met the second time around


Colossians 3: 12- 14

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 
And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.


Apache Blessing

Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be a shelter for the other.
Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other.
Now there will be no loneliness, for each of you will be a companion to the other.
Now you are two persons, but there is only one life before you.
Go now to your dwelling place to enter the days of your togetherness.
May beauty surround you both in the journey ahead and through all the years.
May happiness be your companion, and may your days together be good and long upon the earth.